がんの女性は、ドナーと運命の出会いをした。ある愛の物語

イリノイ州のカップル、クリス・デンプシーさんとヘザー・クルーガーさんは、ある特別な絆で結ばれている。
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全ての始まりは2015年1月にさかのぼる。クリス・デンプシーは、同僚の家族が生体臓器提供者を必要としているという話を小耳に挟んだ。その家族とは、ヘザー・クルーガーのことだった。彼女は2013年にステージ4の肝臓がんと診断され、生きるためには肝臓移植が必要だった。

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ヘザー・クルーガーは2014年3月に肝臓がんのステージ4と診断された。

ヘザーには会ったことさえなかったが、元海兵隊員のクリスは何のためらいもなく彼女を助けようと決めた。適合検査を受けたところ、彼女の体とクリスの臓器は相性が良かった。

「もし自分がヘザーの立場で、自分が生きていけるか分からない状況だったらどういう感じだろうと考えました」クリスはハフポストUS版の取材に対して述べた。「そして自分に言い聞かせたんです。やるしかないだろう、と」

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クリス・デンプシーとヘザー・クルーガーは1年前まで全く見ず知らずの仲であった。

「クリスが私に電話をしてきて、テストの結果相性はばっちりだった、だからやろう、僕が君のドナーだと言いました」。ヘザーは当時の状況を振り返る。「私は信じられませんでした」

移植手術は2015年3月に行なわれた。それは長く、集中力のいる手術だった。クリスの手術は8時間、ヘザーの手術は12時間かかった。最終的にクリスの肝臓のうち55%が摘出され、ヘザーに移植された。

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クリスは半分以上の肝臓をヘザーに提供した。

手術に至るまでの病室で2人は徐々にお互いのことを知るようになり、移植が終わる頃には彼らのお互いへ気持ちはより親密なものへと発展していた。

「夕食を共にしたり、映画を見に行ったり、一緒に多くの時間を過ごすようになりました」とクリスはいう。「そして、私たちは正式に付き合うことになりました」

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術後には幾度となく術後特有の後遺症に悩まされることもあったが、今の2人は共に健康で元気だ。

「後悔はありません」とクリスは断言する。「もし必要であればまた同じことをします」

そして2015年12月、数ヶ月間にわたって考えた結果、クリスはヘザーにプロポーズすることを決意する。

彼が考えたロマンティックな夜の計画は、シカゴを代表する高層ビルであるジョン・ハンコックセンターの95階でディナーをした後、馬車に乗って、最後にプロポーズするというものだった。

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プロポーズの後、馬車の前で微笑む2人

今の2人は、2016年10月に挙げる予定の結婚式の準備で忙しい。花婿付き添い人をつとめるのは、最初に2人を引き合わせたクルーガーの従兄弟だという。

この記事はハフポストUS版に掲載されたものを翻訳しました。

心揺さぶられる結婚式(画像集)
(01 of17)
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\"The bride and groom both lost siblings within a few years of each other. It was an overcast day in late June and even rained a tiny bit during family portraits. Later in the day, a stunning rainbow appeared in a sky lit up with an orange sunset. Many guests burst into tears and embraced the bride and groom, telling them it was their brother and sister showing their presence at the wedding.\" - Anna Delores

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(02 of17)
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\"Jazell and Paul\'s wedding has got to be the one with the most emotional bridesmaids. Most of the time, one or two tear up, but almost every one of Jazell\'s girls cried that day when she was reciting her vows.\" - Jenn Tai

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(03 of17)
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\"I\'ve seen a lot of brides cry as they are walking down the aisle, but Luna lit up in a way that I had never seen before. I have truly never witnessed a happier, more beaming bride as she locked eyes with Federico. Her joy made me choke up because it was so palpable!\" - Bre Thurston

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(04 of17)
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\"Jason\'s eyes welled up with tears as he listened to Nick recite personalized vows during their ceremony.\" - Lauren Saldutti

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(05 of17)
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\"All the bridesmaids and the mother of the bride and groom gathered around this sweet bride and prayed over her. It was so genuine, sweet and powerful. The fact that each person took the time to say their own little prayer made it so personal.\" - Nicole Moering

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(06 of17)
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\"Janine’s fiancé died 52 days before her wedding. This is the first time in my professional career I was asked to photograph a wedding where only one person was actually going to be showing up. I cried with her on this shoot day and this was a first for me. I really admire her courage and know she inspired thousands and thousands of people.\" - Matt Adcock

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(07 of17)
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\"The bride, Kelsey, planned a special moment for her dad to see her for the first time on her wedding day. While I photographed the two of them, her mom tried to stay out of my way. But when I saw her excitement, I knew I had to capture it.\" - Laura Zastrow (credit:Laura Zastrow Photography)
(08 of17)
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\"Natalia and Mike are high school sweethearts who have been together for 10 years! This emotional moment was captured just before he turns around to see her in her wedding dress for the first time.\" - Lisa Robinson

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(09 of17)
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\"Davis Ann\'s grandfather was buried at the same church she was getting married at in New Bern, North Carolina. Before the ceremony, under dark clouds of a large passing storm, she took a single flower to place on his grave stone. Afterwards, her hand rose to her face for a brief second when I heard a faint but audible gasp, before she began to weep.\" - Hooman Bahrani

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(10 of17)
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\"The groom giving praise during the ceremony.\" - Ross Oscar Knight

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(11 of17)
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\"We think it\'s important to capture the first time the bride and groom see each other. However, as a father and photographer, this is the one photo that I MUST have: when the dad sees his daughter before the wedding.\" - Brian Mullins

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(12 of17)
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\"The father of the bride passed away shortly before the wedding day. So the bride did a dance with her brothers and uncles.\" - Mike Allebach (credit:Allebach Photography)
(13 of17)
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\"The couple wrote their own vows for the ceremony. The groom went to comfort his bride during her vows because she started to cry.\" - Heather Shelley

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(14 of17)
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\"After a wedding ceremony at the Naval Academy, a bride and her groom decide to run towards the sun in a moment of spontaneity and joy!\" - Jeremy Harwell

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(15 of17)
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\"This groom shared a special moment with his grandfather -- whom he was named after -- during the reception. It is one of the couple\'s favorite photos from the wedding day.\" - Duy Ho

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(16 of17)
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\"This intense moment happened seconds before Mary Shawn walked down the aisle with her father Joe. They were both very emotional and nervous, a moment this father and daughter will surely never forget!\" - Tracey Buyce

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(17 of17)
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\"The groom\'s father had passed away 11 years ago. They had the memorial flag that he had earned as a Navy veteran flying over at the reception. Right at sunset, everyone gathered as the bride, groom and family members lowered and folded the flag. The ceremony was their way of sharing his presence with everyone.\" - Katie Kaizer

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